Not Satisfied with Life? Read this!




There are many people who are not contented with their current lives and want to become like someone or they are in continuous pursuit to secure a higher position in life. They want to just get out of this situation and improve their lives. But for now, they are not happy with it and don’t value their lives much.

But this is a wrong sort of attitude if one wants to be successful. When you are not satisfied with what you have, you don’t value the things that you are already been bestowed upon. This nature and character comes due to different reasons but the commonest one is failure. Most people don’t take failure in the right spirit. They get frustrated and believe that it is the end of the road. If they have already formed this type of nature then believe me that a nature and character of a person changes seldom. Even if that person changes his/her position in life and gain something, he/she will always remain unsatisfied.

It is not about the success and failure but it is about the innate thinking that we have built over the past few years and now it has crept into our system to an extent that we can’t get rid of it. Being unsatisfied and unhappy with life and things that it has provided us is only a state of mind. This state of mind is a very disappointing one and when a person goes through such period, he/she is not able to manage things in the right way. This type of attitude is the biggest obstacle in the path of success.

In order to change your position or bring better days in your life, you’ve got to change your thinking towards life and the things that nature has provided us. I often hear people saying that he’s lucky that he got that job. He’s lucky that he won that lottery. But it is not. People who are full of life and have clarity in their thinking are the ones with better luck. Because they are always positive in every situation and even failures won’t affect them in any way. They keep on trying new things, hence their chances of being successful increases.

Let’s breakdown the definition of being lucky. Ask yourself with closed eyes, and think who is a lucky person? A person with a lot of wealth? A person with a big house? A person with a luxury car? Our definition of being lucky and successful has always been misrepresented in our society. This is the reason behind people getting depressed and unsatisfied with their lives. Not everyone is able to get these things, so people consider them as failure in life. Nobody teaches them being happy and doing the things you like is also being successful.

Even if you don’t have a big house, but have a family that supports you, you are lucky. Even if you don’t have a luxury car but free rides from friends and cousins, you are lucky. Even if you don’t have a lot of a lot of money but people who support you unconditionally, you are lucky. Have you ever thought of the fact that if you have two hands, legs and all parts of the body intact, you are super lucky. 100 out of 10000 people are born with body deformity or some other disease. You are lucky if you don’t have any of these issues. Most people in this world don’t have a bed to sleep. Yes, it is true that even in our country more than 50% of people don’t even have the basic necessities of life. If you can manage to get three meals in a day and education, you are more than lucky.

If we don’t value these things then we can’t move forward in life. The nature is so forgiving and magnanimous, that it will give you everything if you value it. So demeaning your life or the people around you will never take you to the next level. If you are not happy and satisfied with life then you must start looking at people who are struggling and are not able to even get a day’s meal. You’ll find out that how lucky or unlucky you are.

Love and power to you

Darshan 

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