Trust yourself!



Look! If you can’t trust yourself, then you can’t trust others either. And if you can’t trust others, you will never be able to form a circle of yours that help you to become successful. Yes! It is right. You are not the only one responsible for your success. Your conscience, people around you, friends, family are all part of your success. You can make the most out of these people and of course yourself, if you place trust on others and on you especially.

If you have trust issues with yourself then you can’t be confident enough in life. You can’t live a champion’s life if you don’t trust yourself. You will lead an average life if you are unable to trust yourself. When you don’t have trust in yourself, you are always delusional and bamboozled in your approach towards a certain task. This will also ooze from your personality and body language.

When you don’t trust yourself, you literally don’t trust anything and anyone. This is one of the most dangerous traits to have in life. You will always remain under a canvas where you feel that everyone out there is going to betray you and you can’t simply share a relation or your work with them.

Not trusting themselves is the main reason behind people getting into rituals and superstitions. Because they simply lack trust in themselves and their abilities. Then they look for supernatural powers that can overcome their issues. This further deteriorates the situation and the person is further rammed into this quicksand of falseness.

Self-trust infuses confidence in a person. You become a different person when you build trust in yourself. You will start performing better in life. You will take up things that you once feared. You will start trusting others as well. This will also contribute in your friend circle. The bigger the circle of trust among friends, the bigger your chances of being successful.

So, you’ve got to trust yourself if you want to achieve something in life. If you can’t get out of this, then the situation will become worse. Even if you have been betrayed by people in the past, you’ve got to move ahead and start trusting others, but more importantly yourself.

Love and power to you

Darshan

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

What is Independence?

Image
                                        Independence is letting your kids chose their career path. Independence is letting your daughter chose her better half. Independence is letting your wife make as many friends she wants. Independence is letting your spouse work on any project or career he/she wants. Independence is not pressurizing your spouse for having a baby. Independence is not interfering in your family member’s life. Independence is letting your kids live a life they want.  Every Indian is enjoying this day as we got freedom from the Britishers in 1947 on this very day. I am always excited on this day every year as my life is seriously connected with the word, independence. I have lived my life on my terms and had the ultimate freedom in making study and career choices. In choosing my better half and in choosing the way I want to live. My father is religious, but I am not. My mother is graduate from a top university, but I am college drop out. I have been lucky in my life
Read more

Read books

Image
                                   This is an activity that most millennial's lack these days. I am afraid that reading books will soon be a thing of the past. Books are your real friends. When you need inspiration, you can grab a book and read it. You learn greatly through books. I remember that I was never a good reader. I would read occasionally but in 2015 I got my hand on a book ‘Long walk to freedom’ by Nelson Mandela. The reason I bought that book was that I admired him greatly and always wanted to meet him in person. But this is the story of most of the people, we want to meet our heroes but it’s not always easy. Famous people hardly have time to meet others and some of my heroes are from 18 th and 19 th century. So, meeting them was out of question. Long walk to freedom is an autobiography of Nelson Mandela. It contains more than 700 pages and he has put his heart in that book. While reading famous personality’s autobiography, you feel that they are directly talking to
Read more

Get rid of excuses

Image
                                    Majority of people who fail in life are very good at making excuses. In your life you must be good in most of the things you do. But be a bad liar and dishonest in making excuses. People who find excuses to do certain things are enemies of their own. This also weakens the character of a person. People who often make excuses are very unreliable and you can’t depend on them for any important task or responsibility. The most common excuse that people make is "I don’t have time". You’ve got to take out time for everything. If you plan your time smartly, then you will be surprised to see that you have an ample amount of time in your life for everything. There can be situations in your life when you are intentionally avoiding a certain thing. Instead of finding a foolish excuse, just say no. Don’t try to use excuses to escape out of a situation. Be truthful and honest to yourself. You must be very straight forward in your approach. A lot
Read more