Forget the past!

 



You can learn very little from the past. The trends are always changing. There is no way that you can stick to the past and expect to move ahead. If you want to keep moving forward, then you’ve got to break your link from the past and concentrate on the present and future.

You will always be reminded of your darkness when you look things in the hindsight. Seldom do we remember good things from the past. Most people who are stuck in the past will always be surrounded by the bad memories of it. If you are one of those then you’ve got to work really hard to get back on the track.

You need to stop comparing your current situation to past because past was past, and present is present. They are the different phases of life, hence shouldn’t be compared. If you do so, you will not be able to take the next step and you will remain trapped in that bubble. Getting out of the past is not easy for some people.

They don’t find enough encouragement and motivation to look into the eyes of the present and fight with the current situation. They simply surrender to the past and keep on blaming their past actions for their current situation of present. Which is actually the right reason of their current circumstances. But that’s not the right way of looking at things.

If you are struggling in your present, then never blame your past. Instead work hard in the present so that your future is secure. Because one day your future will be your present and your present will be your past. So, if you buckle down and dedicate time towards valued things in the present than you will never stuck in the past and never blame it in the future.

So, if you see the things this way then your present, past and future are all in your hands. The past of today might not be in your hands but the past of future (present) is entirely in your hands and you are completely responsible for it.  

Love and power to you

Darshan

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