Be a person of value



Be a person of value and create it for others as well. – Darshan Singh

What is your mission of life? What is your purpose of life? How is your journey meant to be on this Earth? How do you want to be remembered as? What impact do you want to create in other’s life and to this world?

These are some serious questions that one should ask to oneself every now and then. Asking yourself these questions will keep you humble and helpful towards others. You’ve got to figure out your importance in this world. There are more than seven billion people currently living on this planet, but you can’t compare yourself with anyone else. You are unique and you’ve got to carve a niche for yourself. To start with, your competition is fierce as you have seven billion people to compete with. On the contrary, if you figure out your path and destination then your competition is only with you.

It is important to find purpose of life as early as possible. Once you find that, you start working on yourself and become valuable to your family and society. When you earn well, you are indirectly helping society by paying taxes and buying a lot of stuff. So, when you are highly educated or you do great in your business, you become a person of value in society.

When you become valuable, then you start contributing towards society and in other’s life. You must always help people around you in whatever way possible. You can give them advice on their work, you can help them with finance, you can lend moral support, you can give career advice and many more.

This society will become great if we start creating value for ourselves. Then we can be valuable for the society as well. In whatever field you are, just help people on the way. It will not empty your knowledge, instead will increase your horizon of social interaction.

When you contribute in other’s life, you are creating a value for them as well. That value combined will benefit others as well as you. Always be remembered as a person who added value to people’s life. You can do it every day and you don’t need to find people to help. You see that most people need help, but they hesitate to ask. Most people in the world want to create a value for themselves including you. So, you can add value to society unless you are valuable yourself. So, start working on your goals, chalk out your aims and be successful.

Love and power to you

Darshan

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