Perception

 

        


Your thinking towards someone doesn’t proves that what the other person is but it depicts your own perception and personality. I do feel that we should never judge someone on the basis of appearance, the way someone talks, or what a person eats. Everyone has their own thinking. I have always felt that there’s nothing right or wrong. Its all in your mind. If you think that eating a chocolate pie every day is wrong, then it is wrong. On the contrary, if you think it is right then it is right too.

Perceptions change with time.  At younger age, it changes after three or four years, but as you grow up, it changes faster than before. More your age, exposure and experience, your perception towards different things change quickly. This happens due to maturity as well. When a person is mature, he/she understands this world and people in a better way.

If you can change your perception towards a person or a ritual or a habit, then you can adjust to different situations better than others. We often face rejections in life but that doesn’t mean you are not good enough. It is their perception about you, and you can’t change that, but you can change yourself. You can become better at your skills. You can ask that person about what you need to do in order to get selected the next time. We must never take rejections personally. It is all perception based and you have no control over other’s perception. But you can surely learn from that.

Changing of perceptions is a never-ending process and should not be halted by you intentionally. You must always focus on improving your perception and widening your horizons. If you stick to a certain type of thinking for your whole life, then I don’t think you can grow. You can see in this era that technology changes every hour, every minute. So how can we remain the same in this ever-changing era?

The success of a person is not measured by the number of cars he has, the money he has in his account or how big house he owns. Instead it is measure by his thinking and perceptions. So, think big, think change.

Love and power to you

Darshan

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