Find your X Factor

 

                    

‘It is a plain simple choice that you have to make in the end. Doing something that gives you more money or doing something that gives you lesser money but gives you eternal gratification.’ – Darshan Singh

There are about 7.8 billion people currently living on this planet. That means there are 7.8 billion different personalities and people with different skills. These people are all unique and dissimilar from each other. But we are wired with a societal system that doesn’t make us believe in this. We often try to follow others and always look to become like someone else or we look to live someone’s else life. That is not how successful people operate.

Most successful people know who they are and how capable they are in doing a certain thing. They know their weaknesses and they also know how to exploit their talent. This is something that can also be learnt. You just need to stay focused in finding your mojo. If you fail to do so, you live an ordinary life.

You must find yourself and your purpose of life. We all are meant for something; someone is meant to write, and others are meant to read. Some are meant to run business; others are meant to work for them. Everyone has uniqueness that separates us from one another. We are all unique and wired to perform different functions in our life. Copying someone or someone’s life is simply unnatural and against the law of nature.

There are so many people in this world who may not be good at most of the things but are good at something that takes them to the heights of success. Everyone has an X factor that separates them from others. You have an X factor too. But many people can’t recognize that in their entire life. Some find it early and some may find in the later stages of life. That comes naturally but there is a way to find it.

When you do certain chores, the one which gives you the utmost satisfaction and joy is your X factor. If you feel tremendous vibes while singing, then you must sing and not do anything else. You may not earn money instantly if you chose that career path and there is no guarantee that you will earn huge bucks in future as well. But there is assurance that you will remain happy and contended.

Finding your X factor doesn’t mean that you are good at it. If you find that music gives you satisfaction then it doesn’t mean that you are a perfect musician, it means that it is your destiny and you need to work on it to make it perfect. You must polish that art and move forward in that direction. Slowly and steadily you will achieve what you want.

If you really want to excel in a certain field, then you can’t give this excuse to yourself that I liked travelling but there was no money in that field. Or I want to become a sportsman but there is no guarantee of success in this competitive environment. Those people are the most unfortunate ones who find their X factors but are not able to pursue in that field.  

Love and peace to you

Darshan Singh