Do it Yourself!

                         


You will have solutions to most of the problems in life when you do your things yourself. – Darshan Singh

Friends are there in your life to help you out in every worst possible situation. Your family stands by you in thick and thin. Most of you will have the support of numerous people in your life. A lot of people become dependent on others from moral, financial, physical and spiritual support.

Seeking support from your near and dear ones is not a bad thing at all but people often overuse this luxury. They become dependent on others for help in every chores and phase of life. This is not a healthy trend and people must realize that there is going to be a time when they will be alone. When there will be no one to help them out of a situation. There will be a time when you will have no one to ask for help. This world works like this. One day, everyone will be busy in their lives and you will have to work everything on your own. That’s when you will find difficulty in doing tasks that you used to do with other’s help and support.

As a youngster, you need to have a knack of taking the matter in your hands. Taking responsibilities in your hands will make you more confident and will enable you to learn more than anything else. This is the first step towards success. Doing your own things will make you an independent person and you will not need anyone for your help or support. This will make you more experimental and versatile. You will generate new ideas to do a certain task and you will have more control over your destiny. Depending on others will never make you a successful person. When you are on your own, you tend to grow rapidly and distinctively. Moreover, you will have a unique personality and charm to your character.

Love and power to you

Darshan


 

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