Chip off negative elements

 

               
                     

Acquiring knowledge and different skills is important in life but equally important is to chip off your negative aspects every now and then to keep yourself clean. Bad habits can be easily developed and sometimes are very difficult to get rid of. Our mind and body are like a car that needs service and overhauling from time to time. If we do not serve our body and condition our mind, then one day there will be a breakdown.

It is crucial to get rid of any negative thoughts, actions, habits and characteristics you have. You’ve got to evaluate yourself from time to time and write your good and bad points on a piece of paper. Your ears must also be open to any constructive criticism that you get. You must work on your weakness and eliminate any negativity from your life.

Once you start chipping off negativity from your life, you will see a huge difference in yourself. You will notice that you start feeling better and you will have more control over your actions. Assess yourself and chip off any weaknesses you have. We often make the mistake of not evaluating ourselves. We often rely on others to tell us about our strengths and weaknesses. It is not others who will tell you about your good and bad, it is you who are responsible to check yourself and your qualities. You need to check yourself every now and then to ensure that you are on the right track and not derailed by your negativity. Because we have got to accept the fact that no one can stay positive forever. There will be times when people will be negative. But the person who conquers it is the champion in the end.

Love and power for you

Darshan

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