Always reconcile

 

              


It’s a human nature to be good with some people and not quite the same with others. We like some and we dislike some. That’s perfectly ok but this nature is not in-built. This is a trait that we get from this world and society. There can be times when we cut off our relations with some people because they did something immoral to us or we don’t consider them worthy of our relationship.

In either case we stop talking to that person and disrupt all the relations with him/her. But can there be a better way of parting your ways? Can there be a middle way that we should take instead of cutting off completely? Indeed, there are many ways and we can follow them to achieve a smooth transition from our current relations to a newer one. But do we really need to make our relations bitter? Or completely ignore that person who was once a great friend or cousin of yours? I don’t think it is worth to let go your relations due to something silly that he/she did to you or vice versa.

Even if you have cut off relations in the past, it is now the right time to reconcile. When we reconcile with others, it increases harmony in society. It upsurges trust among each other. It intensifies those bonds than they were ever before.

We don’t often reconcile because of our egos. In this world we are wearing a fake mask of ego that breaks so many friendships, relations and marriages. This ego will not let you reunite with others. You need to take this ego off your head and reunify with people whom you left away in the past.

Even if a close relative or family member has cheated you in the past, it doesn’t mean that he/she will do it again. It might have been a mistake that he/she must have realized. And when they feel sorry for that and ask for forgiveness, most people keep their ego in front and never forgive others. They just want to break all bonds and stay away from them. Always remember that reconciling with others will not make you a smaller person. A weak person always looks to take revenge whereas a strong person will always accept the apology and forgive others unconditionally.

If you have deceived someone in the past and you are not on talking terms with that person. So, it becomes your duty to reconcile and ask for forgiveness and not merely look to break the bonds. This is a small world and one day or the other we would need people in life. So, breaking the bonds is not an option.

Love and power to you

Darshan

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