Always ask for it

 

                    Just Ask. – DSI / Social Design

‘Don’t hesitate, just ask for what you want, you never know you might get it’. – Darshan Singh

Most people don’t get a lot of things in life just because of the ego they have in them. The ego of knowing everything. The ego of knowing that he won’t give it to me. Not asking for it because it would make me small. The ego of not asking for help from someone else. The ego of not believing that someone else can teach you something. Due to this ego, a lot of people have been deprived of success.

We don’t even ask for what we want. It is not majorly our fault. Parents and schools also have a role to play in making us believe that we can’t achieve a certain thing. From our childhood, we are restricted from dreaming big. We are made fun of when we desire of becoming the richest person in the world. We are being shamed by the society when we decide to pursue our career in sports rather than going to school.

The society works like this and will keep on operating in the same way. We are so burdened in the childhood that we fail to see big dreams and ask for it. Just because we have a preconceived notion that we won’t become the richest person in the world, we never ask for it. We never work on that. Because we never believed in it. I have seen people hesitant and not asking someone for a favor fearing that he/she might reject it. This kind of attitude will not give you more things in life.

The day I understood this theory, I started enjoying the extras in my life. When I go to KFC, I generally order 2 pc chicken, and I always request them to give me both the thigh pieces as I like it very much. But my siblings and friends hesitate for such requests, so they never get it. Because you can’t choose your pieces, you get it random. If you choose, you’ve got to pay more. But you will not believe me that more often than expected, I get what I ask for.

This happens with me everywhere. I am a frequent flyer and when I book my flight tickets, I prefer the front seats because of my tall height. Sometimes the seats are not available because most of the airlines reserve those seats for elderly and on request basis. At the time of boarding I always ask the cabin crew to provide me with the front seat if available. I get it on most of the airlines. I have even asked for extra meals on the flight and get it. I always ask for whatever is there in my mind. More than fifty percent of the times, I get my wishes fulfilled.

My friends and close acquaintances always ask me about this magic. And I have always told them that it is not a special skill, I just ask for it. If you just ask for it and your chances of getting that thing increases by more than 50 percent. If you don’t ask, then your chances are zero percent.

So, you’ve got to understand that this formula works in every aspect of life. It is all about asking if you are looking to achieve something. Success, money, fame, name, friend, partner, love, kids, and what not. You just ask for it. When we ask any of these things then our mind continuously works in that direction and produce ideas for you to get it.

So, from now on, don’t be hesitant to ask for what you want. Be clear in your mind, express what is in your heart. Just go out there and ask for it, and you will not regret this attitude.

Love and power to you

Darshan Singh

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