Love and Respect Yourself
Just remember
this simple thing in life that until and unless you love and respect yourself
you are not going to get respect and love from others. This is the first step
towards success. When you start loving yourself then you are on the way of
becoming a confident person.
Although this love
shouldn’t be unconditional. You must be prepared to criticize yourself when
needed. On the contrary, also respect yourself when you achieve something. Even
if it is a small achievement, you must pat your back and have admiration for
yourself in your own eyes.
One must believe
in his/her own abilities and must rate themselves higher than others or at
least at par. You should always have this belief in your heart that you are
good enough to do a certain thing and must back yourself to achieve anything.
Massive credence comes from pampering yourself. Believe that you are good
enough to be respected and loved by others.
There are many
people who look for validation from others about their own personality. They
want people to respect them for who they are. They want love from others. But
this doesn’t happen in most of the cases. Love and respect can only be gained
if you deserve it. No achievement or accumulation of capital can fetch you
respect and love. Your personality or persona gets you the love and respect you
want in life. You must love yourself for what you do, for who you are, for what
you want to be. You’ve got to love everything about yourself. I am not telling
you to become self-centered but try to give yourself importance. Respect your
own decisions in life. Treat yourself as you treat a VIP person. Don’t settle
for the ordinary, be unique and special.
Once you start
treating yourself well, you will see the change in other’s behavior as well.
People who once didn’t treat you well, will change their conduct towards you. When
you start loving yourself, your aura will change completely. You will feel more
poised and complete in life.
Love and power to
you
Darshan Singh
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