Define Yourself!

                                                  

Defining yourself seems the easiest thing in life yet many people are not able to do this. People often focus on other facets of life but forget to define themselves. The result of not defining yourself is that people start defining you. It may be suitable to your personality, but the chances are that people will normally not define you as who you are. They will define you from their own perception or after meeting you for the first time. Remember that most people will form opinions about you right after their first meeting with you.

It’s not uncommon to see people defining others as someone who they are not. People generally form perceptions about others for their own convenience. If you are someone and don’t define yourself then you can never carve a niche for yourself.

You must define yourself and let people know who you are. If you want to become a businessman then start calling yourself a businessman. Keep visiting cards in your pocket that says that you are a businessman. Change your status on social networking site and write how you want to define yourself in front of public. Until and unless you won’t see a businessman in you, how can you expect people to see it in you?

You’ve got to make people believe about your personality and your career. You must make it clear to the world that you are not going to be defined by others. You are going to create your own definition for self and then admire it. You must respect your decisions and your perception about yourself. You must be positive about your career and future. You must have a pure definition of yourself in your mind.

Once you are clear about your goals and you can define yourself confidently then the success is not far away. The first step of becoming something is when you start believing that you can achieve it. You can only believe in yourself when you are ready to achieve it.

You’ve got to define yourself before people start defining you. Your identity is in your hands. You can become what you want, but there must be an intent for it.