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8 Characteristics of Successful People

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  #1 They know who they are Successful people know about their traits more than anyone else around them. They know how to develop their skills and they certainly know their path towards success. They don’t need motivation from outside, they are internally motivated and clear in their heads about their next step and goals. #2 They know how capable they are Another amazing trait that all successful people have is that they know what they can do. They know their limits and how far they can go. They are not derailed by others; they know their path and they also know that what it takes to walk on that path of success. What are the things they need to sacrifice and what will they get out of their goals? Their vision is clear, and no one can mislead them into misery. #3 They believe they deserve it Successful people are not often overconfident, but they are always optimistic about their moves and they know they can achieve greatness. They also believe that they are worthy of succe
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Do you Fear Rejections? Read this!

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Rejections are a part of life and one must live with it. People react to rejections in different ways. There are people who don’t even dare to pursue a certain thing because of the fear of rejection. Another type of people pursues things but give up after few rejections. The third category of people are rare to find because they are champions and they never give up on their dreams. They never get bobbed down by the challenges they face. They never surrender themselves under extreme circumstances. They always keep moving forward despite rejections. They never alter their goals, they never settle for less, they never lower their benchmark and they never want to quit. They will always comeback stronger after a rejection and prove their worth. When people are rejected, they often take that rejection personally. But the rejection was based on the other person’s view about you. It might not be the real you or he might have perceived you in some other way. You are the one who knows your true
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Don’t discourage your Kids!

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This is what most people have been doing to their family, especially kids. Implanting disbelief in them and then expecting great things to happen. One of my friends was critical about his son’s studies. He was worried that his son wouldn’t score good in the upcoming final exams of fifth grade. His son is a great cricketer and plays for local district. I have seen the never-ending passion for cricket in his son’s eyes. We also know that it is not easy to make a cut in the senior Indian cricket team as millions of players every year fight for that slot. But it has been proven in the past that hard work and dedication can make it possible. My friend’s son had tremendous belief and skill level to make it to the top. But his father was more critical about his studies, so he stated implanting disbelief in his son’s mind. He started discouraging and demotivating him about the chances for him getting to the top. He constantly told him to focus more on studies and leave cricket citing fal
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Hard work brings luck!

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  “Dreaming about your goal will take you nowhere, working hard on it will.” – Darshan Singh Many people are really confused about the difference between luck and hard work. Although luck is highly dependent on hard work, but people often mistake it with some kind of a magic. People often put the blame of their failures on luck. And some give it credit as well for their success. Luck is our preconceived notion that we use as an excuse. We often depend on these kinds of societal beliefs that are often not true. Luck is nothing but a mere justification of your success and failures. Everything is in your hands and you are the one who control’s your destiny. If you believe in luck, you will waste a lot of years of your productive life depending on this fake notion. Hard work, dedication, discipline, madness to achieve something, perseverance is luck. When you work harder and better than others than naturally your luck is going to be stronger. Because you were simply better at your
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Respect Nature

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  Many people these days have gone away from nature. They are happy in this materialistic world and concrete jungle environment. It is not bad to adapt to new technology in life but remaining true and respectful towards nature is need of the hour. It is our duty to remain loyal and responsible towards the nature. Nature has given us so many things and it will continue to give till the time this world thrives. It is the human that doesn’t give it back. We take more than we give. We also don’t often spend time with nature. It is crucial to spend time with nature so that we can align with it and take more benefits from it. This will also teach you to respect and take care of the nature. If we keep on extracting from nature and don’t give it back, we will destroy it. When we spend time with nature we learn a lot of things from it. We learn that how small we are in front of nature. How vulnerable we are in this environment and it is something else, something stronger than humans, some
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Spare a day for Nothing!

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“Doing nothing sometimes is the best thing to do.” – Darshan Singh Doing nothing is one of the easiest things to do in life. You don’t need any skill, you don’t need a specialty in that, you just need to sit idle and do nothing. Doing nothing is becoming a huge problem these days among the youngsters. People don’t want to put much efforts and expect great results. This doesn’t happen on this planet. You’ve got to fight for your things and assert your will to claim success. But sometimes lame activities like sitting idle does wonders. These days people are running behind success like a clock. They don’t want to stop and wait for the things to happen. They are impatient and always expecting for good results. Sometimes this continuous pressure on mind can result in dangerous situations. People can go into depression and their anxiety levels can shoot up if they are not able to control their pursuit. Even in the formula 1 racing, the race drivers stop for a quick break to refuel th
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How do you react to your Problems?

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This is a fact that you can’t control everything in life. There are always factors that manipulate your circumstances and existence. Some factors are controllable, and some are out of hands. Therefore, it must be accepted that you can’t always control your plight and you should stop worrying about it. When people face a problem in life, they get bamboozled by it most of the times. They behave in a different manner as compared to their normal mode. People often make more blunders when they face problems as they want to get rid of that situation as quickly as possible. Decisions made is haste are mostly impractical. So that person suffers further and gets stuck in that issue. This is where the reactions are important. Champions are always calm and collective in most of the situations in life. Whenever they face failures or obstacles, they react to their problems differently as opposed to a normal being. No one wants problems, but they can creep into your life unannounced. Thus, y
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